hu·mil·i·ty
–noun
the quality or condition of being humble; modest opinion or estimate of one's own importance, rank, etc.
By definition humility is an estimate of one's own importance, however what do I base my importance on? Depending on where and how we are brought up often times lends to our perception of who we are, education often times plays a factor, not to mention any professional training we might acquire through various jobs. Position within any organization where we are over others often causes us to become head strong if not channeled correctly. Needless to say, our example regardless of the role or realm in which we operate should always be one of humility.
Unfortunately, chivalry, common courtesy and the "please you go first" mentality appears to be a thing of the past. I totally understand being in a hurry, my boss always tells me, "we work on a stop watch, not a calender", merely attempting to impress upon me the need to obtain immediate and sustained results. That of course is the work place and meeting a metric is crucial to profitability.
What stops me from being humble in my social circle, my family atmosphere, my place of worship?
True humility is not only a condition of my heart but a reflection of it. First, I must understand my position in relationship to the God of the universe, and allow that to be the standard to which I base my understanding of who I am.
God speaking to Job in 38:4 stated ""Where were you when I laid the foundations of the earth? Tell [Me], if you have understanding."
In comparison, I am nothing, now hold on, being nothing isn't an elimination of your existence but merely a position or an attitude that we occupy in an effort to be in obedience to that which we were called. Besides, how do I fulfill the role and responsibility of the title of "Christian"?, To be Christ like. 2 Corinthians 12:9 And He said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness." Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me."
There's that word again, Power! True humility lye's in the Power of Christ, so that means that Christ has to be in me in order to produce the fruit of humility.
But listen brother, I'm a man! thus the mis-understanding, meekness/humility, in no way advocates weakness, this is true power under control or restraint. Just because we have the ability to do something in force doesn't mean we have to! We choose to bring our flesh into submission.
"Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself." Phil 2:3
So basically I need to put others first, willingly! Trust me when I say this simple act is so much harder than it sounds. However, it starts with me!